Being sober has its benefits. Not waking up hungover being the primary not having to talk myself into or out of awkward sex being the secondary and allowing myself the full range of my emotions being the tritary.
I've become insanely irritated with this one person. We had a thing. We stopped having a thing. Simple, right? Wrong.
I read this great thing the other day: one has to be happy alone to be happy with another person. This way when (not if) when the person leaves you're still happy.
When someone places their emotional reaponsibiliy (happiness) on another person it is extremely fuxking unfair, unwarranted, and codependent.
Friendship develops over time and through stress. Friends are the people who hold up the mirror when I fuck up and let me know how I'm off track. Relationships are based on responsibility and part of that is owning the part of the dance where you stepped on someone's toes.
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