I am digging myself in and out of holes. As a student I have learned a few things: ask for what you want, expect yes in reply. I am about to become a business owner more updates to follow.
So now for juice. Recently spent a few dates with this guy who has an eight year old. He's okay, the guy. But he started with this: come over to my house, let me make you dinner, stay the night. These were more or less demands stated via text. These were not requests. There was also the occasional: I like you; when can I see you?
Anyhow. I pulled back, got silent, removed myself politely. More texts with more demands. I finally said: I'm busy have zero time, don't want to make any comittments that push me into lies.
He texted back: I just want to have fun; Don't worry about the commitments; Maybe we can go out when you're home.
At which point I wanted to say: go fuck yourself. I tried polite and now all I have is how about ask. How about consider asking me what I want, if there is anything more or less that I am feeling. Inquire into my state of mind. Instead, I'm just looking for fun.
For the record: you're not fun nor are you entertaining. I want the goddamn moon and stars not fun
1 comment:
Amen. A-fucking-men. Enjoy every piece of New York and toss these self-absorbed boring ass "fun" bags to the wind.
You've got way more going on in intellect and fabulousness than they ever will. Obvious statement of the year. xx
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